Welcome to my blog about transcending the self. Instead of using the mind to fix or control your world so that you can be happy, there is another way. This blog is about moving your awareness from your limited, egoic-self to your Higher Self in order that you can be the divine expression that you were intended to be.


Many of my beliefs are based on the books "The Untethered Soul" (T.U.S.) by Michael Singer and "Falling into Grace" by Adyashanti. These books describe the path of moving your awareness from the part of you that tries to make your life work (ie, find happiness, security, love...) to the part of you that Witnesses or Watches your life unfold and your reactions to your life. As you become more aware of yourself as the Watcher, and you let go of the energies of the lower self, you will be moving towards greater freedom.

So instead of struggling to make everything go your way in life, why not accept what is (release the need to fix or control people, situations or your mind), open your heart and surrender to That Which Created Life in the first place! In other words, go with the flow of life and watch the amazing miracle that you are blossom! Please join me in choosing to move beyond the limitations of the personal self and to live a life of freedom.

To get the most out of this blog, I suggest that you read the books. I also recommend the CDs by Michael Singer (see the website below). I post on this blog about once a week. If you would like to be notified by email each time I post please send your email address to donnamccullough@cox.net.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Acceptance and Surrender

In Chapter 16 Michael talks about using life's events as an opportunity to grow.  This involves surrendering to the reality of each moment and allowing the energy of that moment to pass through, thus touching and changing us at our deepest core.

"To comfortably handle this flow of life, your heart and mind must be open and expansive enough to encompass reality.  The only reason they're not is because you resist.  Learn to stop resisting reality and what used to look like stressful problems will begin to look like the stepping-stones of your spiritual journey."  (T.U.S., p. 155) 

Resistance happens when I am so busy "doing" my life that I am not even aware of what my heart is feeling.  Or when I am so wrapped up in the preconceived notions about how I want my life to be that I am not accepting the reality of my life.

I have had a couple of experiences (both following spiritual retreats) when I let all of this go and was completely present with an open heart.  On both of these occasions I experienced a different reality...a different way of being that was much more beautiful than my typical experience.  Although I can not put my experience into words, what occurred showed me that we are capable of having a very different experience in life than what we are settling for by living in the mind.  To achieve this state however, there is a price to pay, we must let go of the personal self.  I truly believe that the peace that we are all craving can not be found in the personal self (no matter how we try to perfect it)...but by letting go and surrendering to God.

So I will continue to focus on accepting the reality of my life, relaxing and releasing, and keeping my awareness on myself as the Observer.

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