Welcome to my blog about transcending the self. Instead of using the mind to fix or control your world so that you can be happy, there is another way. This blog is about moving your awareness from your limited, egoic-self to your Higher Self in order that you can be the divine expression that you were intended to be.


Many of my beliefs are based on the books "The Untethered Soul" (T.U.S.) by Michael Singer and "Falling into Grace" by Adyashanti. These books describe the path of moving your awareness from the part of you that tries to make your life work (ie, find happiness, security, love...) to the part of you that Witnesses or Watches your life unfold and your reactions to your life. As you become more aware of yourself as the Watcher, and you let go of the energies of the lower self, you will be moving towards greater freedom.

So instead of struggling to make everything go your way in life, why not accept what is (release the need to fix or control people, situations or your mind), open your heart and surrender to That Which Created Life in the first place! In other words, go with the flow of life and watch the amazing miracle that you are blossom! Please join me in choosing to move beyond the limitations of the personal self and to live a life of freedom.

To get the most out of this blog, I suggest that you read the books. I also recommend the CDs by Michael Singer (see the website below). I post on this blog about once a week. If you would like to be notified by email each time I post please send your email address to donnamccullough@cox.net.

Monday, December 26, 2011

nurturing the light

I heard many beautiful messages at church this weekend.  Just as Mary nurtured the newborn infant Jesus, we are to nurture the light of Christ that was born in us this Christmas.  As we do it will grow, just as a baby grows as it is nurtured by his/her mother. 

We nurture this light with our intentions, our awareness as the Observer, and by letting go of the ego which blocks the light.  We nurture this light by accepting what is showing up in each moment and relaxing, allowing ourselves to be present with what is.  As we stop the analyzing and the controlling we make room for God's grace.  

Adyashanti says it like this:

"By relinquishing our need and desire to control, explain, and believe the way that our minds talk to us about what was and what is, we find a capacity to open to a new state of consciousness...At first it's just experienced as a state of stillness, the foretaste of awakened consciousness, where a presence begins to reveal itself.  If you allow yourself to relax into this stillness, this silence, you start to witness this presence arise...By giving your attention to it, by becoming aware of this inner presence and stillness, even in the midst of activity (i.e., by being the Observer and letting go) you make yourself more and more available to the dawning of this vast expanse where you can awaken out of the belief and experience of separation.  You realize yourself to be a deep well of awareness."  (Falling into Grace, p. 119).    

Christmas may be over but it is really just a beginning.  It is the beginning of an opportunity to grow the awareness that was born in each of us this holiday - the awareness of the light within. 

Thursday, December 22, 2011

a gift to all of humanity

"Let go of indugling in the mind, realize it doesn't have the answers for you, and it doesn't have the answers for us collectively.  Together we can begin to stop the insanity within ourselves and amongst each other.  Realizing our deep essential nature and finding the peace and happpiness that lie there is not just something for ourselves; it's a gift to all of humanity." (Falling into Grace, p. 70).

Just like Michael Singer, Adyashanti talks about moving beyond the human mind, the separate self and connecting with our essential nature.  We truly are One, One with God and One with each other.  It is the belief that we are separate that leads to suffering.

We can connect with our essential nature through meditation, surrender, witnessing or accepting the moment exactly as it is and letting go. 

In the remaining 3 days before Christmas please join me in letting go of the neurotic roomate and trusting the Universe/God/Spirit to light our way to the freedom that is our inherent nature.  What better gift can we give ourselves and the world?

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Happy Christmas

"We look to everything in life to make us happy, not realizing that happiness is actually at our very core.  It's natural to our being.  There's no way to become happy.  We simply need to stop doing the things that make us unhappy."  (Falling into Grace, p. 41)


Some of the things that we do that make us unhappy include making demands of ourselves or others or life.


"When we insist that the things, people, and events around us change so that we can be happy, we're actually denying something very deep within us.  We're denying the truth of who we are...and the truth of each other."  (Falling into Grace, p. 41).

Lately I have begun to accept on a deeper level that there is a very precious being inside of me that is expressing itself as me (and as you!).  I recognize that we sometimes want others to love, accept, approve of us so that we don't have to do that for ourselves.  If I only feel good about myself when I am feeling loved and accepted by the people in my life, than I am not loving myself.  If I only feel good about myself when I "do a good job" than I am not accepting the truth of who I am.  

The truth is that we are all One...uniquely expressing the love, joy, peace, creativity of God.

I recently attended a workshop with Adyashanti.  He spoke about Jesus and the Christmas story.  Adya said that both Jesus the human man (who got angry, upset...) and Christ (the embodied Son of God) live in each of us.  Christmas symbolizes the coming-forth of the indwelling Christ in us.  Staying present with what is True for you in each moment is a way to access the Christ within.  He described this spiritual path as aligning oneself with one's authentic experience in each moment with an open heart and mind in order to allow Spirit to guide you.

May your in-dwelling Christ come forth this Christmas season.

Friday, December 9, 2011

accepting life

Here are some thoughts of Michael's about stress (from one of his CDs): Stress only happens when we resist life's events.  We usually resist the experience of the event passing through us, such as the feelings of the event.  Better to accept (let life be life), release (preconceived notions, feelings, sensations, thoughts...) and choose unconditional happiness.

In chapter 2 of Falling into Grace, Adyanshanti says that our egos cause us to suffer when we try to control life, demand that life be different than it is, or argue with what is or what was.  He says that "'what is' is this moment -before you even think about it. That's what is.  Argue with this moment, and you will suffer...That goes for the past as well."  (Falling into Grace, p. 42)

He says that we are afraid to accept what is because then it will never change.  "But as soon as we say something shouldn't be happening, we've locked ourselves into an extremely narrow mindset with very few options.  When we really see that what is, simply is-neither good nor bad- than all options are available to us.  We can respond to life in a wise and loving way."  (Falling into Grace, p. 44)

I see this all of the time with myself and with the people that I work with.  When we accept the situation as it is, we respond from a place of clarity.

I will watch how I try to control, make demands upon and reject what is in my life.  "We have to somehow find the capacity to really want to know what's true, in this moment, without trying to control or make demands of it, because it's the truth that delivers us from suffering...that allows us to shift out of this egoic state..into a whole different state of consciousness, which is much more open, free, and inclusive." (Falling into Grace, p. 44-45).

Join me in accepting what is, letting go of the desire and efforts to control life, and allowing Truth to shine through and as You!