Welcome to my blog about transcending the self. Instead of using the mind to fix or control your world so that you can be happy, there is another way. This blog is about moving your awareness from your limited, egoic-self to your Higher Self in order that you can be the divine expression that you were intended to be.


Many of my beliefs are based on the books "The Untethered Soul" (T.U.S.) by Michael Singer and "Falling into Grace" by Adyashanti. These books describe the path of moving your awareness from the part of you that tries to make your life work (ie, find happiness, security, love...) to the part of you that Witnesses or Watches your life unfold and your reactions to your life. As you become more aware of yourself as the Watcher, and you let go of the energies of the lower self, you will be moving towards greater freedom.

So instead of struggling to make everything go your way in life, why not accept what is (release the need to fix or control people, situations or your mind), open your heart and surrender to That Which Created Life in the first place! In other words, go with the flow of life and watch the amazing miracle that you are blossom! Please join me in choosing to move beyond the limitations of the personal self and to live a life of freedom.

To get the most out of this blog, I suggest that you read the books. I also recommend the CDs by Michael Singer (see the website below). I post on this blog about once a week. If you would like to be notified by email each time I post please send your email address to donnamccullough@cox.net.

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

The Girl God

Michael Singer completely surrendered to what life was bringing to him and his life unfolded in amazing and beautiful ways.

In watching my own surrender process, I notice the tendency to close down and become constricted by attaching to negative thoughts either about myself or others.  It happens so quickly.  One little negative thought or worry leads me down a path of egoic misery. When I do so my energy centers (heart, third eye etc.) close down and I feel small. Usually this is a subtle process that I do not even know is occurring unless I am paying attention to it.  It is an entirely different state of being than when I am relaxed, open to love, and aligned with Spirit.

The Ho'Oponopono prayer always brings me back into alignment.  I say it for myself or the person who I am feeling closed off from:

I Love You
I am sorry (for what I did, or for all of the things that have happened to you that keep you from knowing the Truth of who you are)
Please forgive me
Thank you

If I say this prayer while being connected to my heart it always brings me back into alignment with Truth/Love/God.  It helps me to see when I am holding onto a sense of not being enough or not deserving of all of the good that Life has in store for me.  The trick is to catch the little negative thought and choose to let it go before I am too far down the path of misery and it becomes a bigger thought.

Hanging onto our thoughts (whether they be negative, positive or neutral) is often an attempt to fix or avoid problems.  Although it can seem scary to let go of relying on our minds to fix what is wrong in our lives, this can also be a very exciting process.

I find it helpful to think back to the times when I have let go and how well those experiences turned out.  There are beautiful experiences waiting for all of us.  Miracles are commonplace.  There is an abundance of all that we need just waiting for us, including our physical needs and comfort, boundless love and joy, health and vitality, peace...a life filled with beauty and wonder.  It is our attachment to the small, limited, personal self that keeps us closed off from what Life wants to give us.

 Let us take the leap in each and every moment by letting go of what our mind is telling us and instead focus on what life has put right in front of us and watch the miracles unfold.

What if our religion was each other
If our practice was our life
If prayer, our words
What if the temple was the Earth
If forests were our church
If holy water--the rivers, lakes, and ocean
What if meditation was our relationships
If the teacher was life
If wisdom was self-knowledge
If love was the center of our being.
-Ganga White


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