Welcome to my blog about transcending the self. Instead of using the mind to fix or control your world so that you can be happy, there is another way. This blog is about moving your awareness from your limited, egoic-self to your Higher Self in order that you can be the divine expression that you were intended to be.


Many of my beliefs are based on the books "The Untethered Soul" (T.U.S.) by Michael Singer and "Falling into Grace" by Adyashanti. These books describe the path of moving your awareness from the part of you that tries to make your life work (ie, find happiness, security, love...) to the part of you that Witnesses or Watches your life unfold and your reactions to your life. As you become more aware of yourself as the Watcher, and you let go of the energies of the lower self, you will be moving towards greater freedom.

So instead of struggling to make everything go your way in life, why not accept what is (release the need to fix or control people, situations or your mind), open your heart and surrender to That Which Created Life in the first place! In other words, go with the flow of life and watch the amazing miracle that you are blossom! Please join me in choosing to move beyond the limitations of the personal self and to live a life of freedom.

To get the most out of this blog, I suggest that you read the books. I also recommend the CDs by Michael Singer (see the website below). I post on this blog about once a week. If you would like to be notified by email each time I post please send your email address to donnamccullough@cox.net.

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Living with an Open Heart

The "secret" that Michael is referring to in Chapter 6 ("The Secrets of the Spiritual Heart") is the unlimited energy that is available to you through your heart.  This "beautiful experience of energy...is meant to be going on inside you at all times.  The highest state you have ever experienced is simply the result of how open you were." (T.U.S., p. 57)

In Chapter 7 Michael talks about how we tend to close the heart as a way to protect ourselves, to protect our egos from feeling hurt.  The little things throughout the day that throw you off balance emotionally (such as someone saying something hurtful, giving an opinion that you do not like, ignoring you, or getting angry at you) cause you to close your heart.

Michael points out that we are "so sensitive that the slightest little thing causes it (the part of us that gets disturbed) to overreact." (T.U.S., p. 60).  I would imagine that for most of us this closing of the heart happens often throughout each day.

What I have found to be very helpful is to check in frequently with my heart to see if it is open or closed.  And, when I am interacting with another person I remind myself to keep my heart open. When I remember to do this I am more present with the other person and I find that I respond to them in a way that allows us to connect better. 

The next time you are in a conversation, instead of thinking about what you are going to say next, ask yourself "Is my heart open?" and see how it goes for you.  
       

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