Welcome to my blog about transcending the self. Instead of using the mind to fix or control your world so that you can be happy, there is another way. This blog is about moving your awareness from your limited, egoic-self to your Higher Self in order that you can be the divine expression that you were intended to be.


Many of my beliefs are based on the books "The Untethered Soul" (T.U.S.) by Michael Singer and "Falling into Grace" by Adyashanti. These books describe the path of moving your awareness from the part of you that tries to make your life work (ie, find happiness, security, love...) to the part of you that Witnesses or Watches your life unfold and your reactions to your life. As you become more aware of yourself as the Watcher, and you let go of the energies of the lower self, you will be moving towards greater freedom.

So instead of struggling to make everything go your way in life, why not accept what is (release the need to fix or control people, situations or your mind), open your heart and surrender to That Which Created Life in the first place! In other words, go with the flow of life and watch the amazing miracle that you are blossom! Please join me in choosing to move beyond the limitations of the personal self and to live a life of freedom.

To get the most out of this blog, I suggest that you read the books. I also recommend the CDs by Michael Singer (see the website below). I post on this blog about once a week. If you would like to be notified by email each time I post please send your email address to donnamccullough@cox.net.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The honor of experiencing life

Michael has said something like this:

The world is going to show up and I have the honor of experiencing it. 

Notice he isn't saying that we have to make it all happen...we are just here to experience it.  Of course we need to take action, make decisions...but that is when we are dealing with what is happening in the moment.  But how much time do we actually spend living in the moment...dealing with what is right in front of us?  Or do we spend an inordinate amount of time fretting about the past or worrying about (i.e., planning for) the future?  Do we waste precious time listening to our mind tell us what is wrong with our lives or what we need to do to make them better instead of just enjoying the moment?

"The key is to be quiet.  It's not that your mind has to be quiet...You, the one inside watching the neurotic mind, just relax.  You will then naturally fall behind the mind because you have always been there." (T.U.S., p. 95).

Watch the mind go through all of its drama and relax behind it.

How easy it is to forget to disengage from the psyche/mind.  I find that it requires a great deal of presence to avoid this trap.  I need to constantly be alert to where my awareness is focused.  Am I focused on all of the external distractions that life presents...the to-do list, relationships, finances, job, parenting... or am I aware that I am the awareness?  I find it helpful to wear a piece of jewelry or put up little notes to remind me to notice that I am the noticer.  I also find it helpful to make witnessing a part of my daily routine such as each time I get in the car, before I check my cell phone or look at a clock...

I use to have a picture hanging in my bedroom that said the following:

"Good morning this is God.  I will be handling all of your problems today.  Just relax and have a good day!"   

Today allow yourself the gift of experiencing your life....relax and have a good day.  

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